Tag Archives: Problems

Would you like to come to my Pity Party (Part 2 of 2) ?

Yesterday, I whined and complained about the issues I had when getting my Green Card. Today, I regale you with my current and up-to-date whines and complaints. No more of these stale old tales. Nope, just the breaking news. Life … Continue reading

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Would you like to come to my Pity Party (Part 1 of 2) ?

This is two-part tale intended to glean lots of pity and support. No hidden agenda, no complications, just some whining and complaining. In this first part, I am avoiding my current woes and talking about past ones. NONE of the … Continue reading

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The marriage that WAS and the relationship that IS

It’s now been 9 months since my runaway wife said it was over and moved into the basement bedroom suite. It’s been 7 months since she moved out to her own apartment. In that time she has had very little … Continue reading

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Anger turned inward

I started with this simple post, wondering about the status of my marriage. As you may know, things got worse, especially with regard to my three girls and how they reacted to the tension in the house. In fact, the … Continue reading

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The detritus of a relationship

The breakdown of a relationship is no fun at all. Those plans and ideas about a joint future are like suspended tendrils reaching out into the distance. As the relationship is terminated, they all come crashing down, cut off at … Continue reading

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Which way to go?

Relationships have many elements to them: Trust. Respect. The usual kinds of love, affection, and intimacy. The list goes on. They also ebb and flow, both when starting up and when in trouble. There are a number of patterns of … Continue reading

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Fix your WordPress settings!

People, one thing I dearly love is the banter in these blogs. Sometimes the banter is more interesting or funny than the original source material (no offence intended to every single author out there — oops!). Banter works well when … Continue reading

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Persistence

Sometimes I write brief comments on other people’s posts. Sometimes I get absorbed and babble on for a long time. You know which kind of comment(s) I’m talking about today! I found this interesting post: Real Love is Messy. The … Continue reading

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My “About Me” has been updated (at last)

I wondered why some bloggers queried whether or not my wife would move out. In fact, she moved out six months ago. It was my fault. My “About Me” page was woefully out-of-date and filled with pondering about the temporary … Continue reading

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Shutting up, or switching modes, or hiding in the shadows

Before I begin… Let me welcome a new subscriber, someone who I have discovered a lot of you already know: Thomas. He writes this blog (Morning Wood). I wonder how many of you are innocent enough to not realize what … Continue reading

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