Time to write, time to catch up

I miss writing. I miss blogging. I resent that other kinds of social media detract from a style that gives you time to think before putting fingers to (virtual or physical) keyboard, or even a frustrated voice to my Apple devices (no Siri, “as soon as”, not “asses at noon-ish”).

Obviously, there’s no good reason for that in the sense that I can theoretically sit down and blog anytime. I could even blog standing up. Maybe not while walking, on account of the whole getting-hit-by-a-car thing. Or the walking-into-a-cactus thing.

It’s three years since I wrote a post, and that one was hardly clear on where Life was taking me. Correction, it’s three years since I *published* a post. I write lots of things, but don’t publish.

So many of us have moved on, moved into a different phase of life, or moved on and back again. I’m not sure how many followers from the past will receive this. New email addresses, automated software dumping me in the Spam folder (how dare they!), new lives and people in those lives.

I sometimes blogged in ‘real time’ in the past. Occasionally it would be right up there and current. Often, though, if it was something interesting or amusing, I took the time to craft my story a little. More for me than an obligation to present a particular standard. But that doesn’t really justify a multi-year gap that maybe I feel obliged to present in some kind of sequence. Let the exposition roll!

For a sneak preview of what I plan to post about in the near future, see the Tags on this post. Separation and Moving On — always big topics in our lives. The reference to Vacation and the locales — Australia, Europe, Canada — hint at trips I’ve taken. Extra hint: one trip was more than two months long. A game-changer in so many ways. Government refers to my new job. Pets refers to transitions, appearances, and losses. Acceptance and Joy are in different positions of the continuum that represent the upper and lower limits of our relationship happiness. Theft is a tag that refers to an event that is written up here a few years ago but moved into very unexpected territory.

OK, so any more of this foreshadowing and I’ll switch from vague but intriguing to one of those U.S. reality shows (like Master Chef) where before each ad break they say what happened, what will happen, and then come back with wasting-time previews, only to discover that, no, the thing that you thought might be interesting isn’t in this part of the show, it’s right at the end. Where was I? Oh yes, note to me, shut up now and start preparing better posts.


About Single Dad

I married young. Now, after more than 20 years of marriage, 3 wonderful daughters, and many ups and downs, my wife has decided the marriage is over. The "About Me" and "My Background" pages on my blog have more details.
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6 Responses to Time to write, time to catch up

  1. Has it really been 3 years? So glad to have you back!

    • Single Dad says:

      Hi Grey,
      Yes, time does fly when you’re having fun. Sometimes it flies when you’re not too… ๐Ÿ™‚

      Instagram (where I just have a few hopefully-cool travel photos) would really like us to connect. It tells me where you are (not to be revealed here), offers me your photos, etc. I have no idea why it does that. Out of respect for your privacy, I don’t Follow you. If you have an issue with how it decides to spill the beans on your move, hang around Congress and see if one of the Old White Guys can rustle up the CEO to endure withering but mostly misguided questions about this kind of thing.

      Also, keep the up the good work. I feel like you’re making dating progress in some ways than in a while. Woo-hoo!

      • Hmmm, not creepy at all that Insta has been trying to ‘out’ me ๐Ÿ˜‰ You’re welcome to follow me if you want; I’m okay with it. I’ll just have to swear you to secrecy on your look behind the curtain ๐Ÿ˜‰

        • Single Dad says:

          When you say โ€œmy look behind the curtainโ€, I didnโ€™t think Instagram was for *those* kinds of personal photos.. ๐Ÿ™‚ All I have are the best of my travel photos and videos.

  2. Hi! I’m actually new here and still looking for ideas about blogging, but I really like writing, Hopefully you can follow me too and if you have time maybe you can read some of my articles and you’re free to comment. I don’t have readers yet and don’t know how to get them. Thanks! Peace! ๐Ÿ™‚

  3. krc says:

    wow 3 yrs

    i think u have the record absence

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